Learn the secrets from an expert
If you’ve ever fantasised about impact play, had your curiosity piqued by 50 Shades of Grey or have dabbled and would like to find out more, this tutorial is for you. It is very beginner friendly, starting with the basics of how to negotiate with your partner before you begin, then taking you through each piece of equipment, from hand spanking, to paddles, crops, floggers and canes, and ending with how to put it all together to create an interesting play experience. As you will see from her bio, Vicky has been teaching for 16 years and involved in BDSM for far longer, so is ideally placed to pass on these skills and her experience.
Choosing and using the tools of the trade
For each item of equipment there is a separate video, describing how to choose the right piece of kit for your needs, and showing various practical techniques - how to do them safely and so they feel good for your partner. You do not need any previous experience with a flogger or cane to be able to begin practicing the techniques shown. Throughout the course different ways to play with impact are described and demonstrated, giving you various options to try out with your partner to help you find what you both enjoy the most. Impact play can be about a gentle, sensual connection with your partner, or taking someone on an adrenaline journey to release endorphins and get a natural high, or about reinforcing your roles as the Dominant and submissive (or Top and bottom). This tutorial will give you information and ideas to pick the right equipment, techniques, communication and scene style to either explore all the options or focus on the one that feels right for you and your partners’ play style.
The ecstasy without the agony
Impact play can seem daunting as there is a lot to get right to make it fun and pleasurable rather than just painful. This course will lead you through everything in simple easy steps so that you can enjoy impact play either as part of your rope scenes or as a play scene in itself. It is not necessary to own any equipment before you begin this tutorial, although if you already have a few items it will take you through practical techniques for getting the most from them. This tutorial will help you make the right choices when shopping, for the type of play you would like to try with your partner and the sensations you would like to explore. It also includes a recommended shopping section where you can buy quality equipment which is hand crafted in the U.K.
Vicky has been on the BDSM scene for 20 years and running Bondatrix - a Fetish business making clothing and equipment for 18 years. She is passionate about kink, and loves many aspects of it, from bondage to impact play, to head games and exploring D/s. Vicky has spent 16 years teaching BDSM classes on many topics and loves helping people to get the most out of their kink interests.
Bondatrix makes a wide range of men’s clothing, women’s clothing, bondage gear, and impact and spanking toys. Many items are created in the U.K. workshop, from the highest quality materials, and can be customised. It is a small specialised BDSM company, with a worldwide reputation, and won the International Bondage Awards. Bondatrix ships worldwide, and you can view their products on their site or contact them about a custom item.