Before you start

This section gives you a brief introduction into safety and consent. If you are new to BDSM, it is strongly recommended that you also take a look at the free 'Negotiating consent' tutorial.

As with any SM play, always get plenty of feedback when you experiment with a new activity. As part of this, you might forgo safe-words in favour of plain communication, e.g. "That would be a lot nicer if it were more gentle", "Up a bit!"or "Harder!".